This male friend just got furious with me for showing up late for a planned event. However, I felt like he would be sleeping or trying to get out of going. So we had a fight because he backed out of the plans and told me to leave his house. Then he wrote a question to yahoo answers regarding the situation and received an obnoxious response then emailed this to me. However, he is from Japan and his parents and other relatives are over there. When I heard of the incident I immediately thought I should contact him to find out how they were. However, considering the situation and how mad he got over me showing up late. He's done several things intentional to make me upset cause problems. What do you think I should do?
Sometimes you should just be the better person, and if he is still mad when you ask about his family at least you tried.
honestly, he's being a d*ck. it sounds like there's some deeper psychological issues he's going through though. you should try to talk to him, and if he refuses, then you should move on. i mean, you showed up late. it happens. there's no reason to blow up over it. things will be okay though. it's actually probaby a good idea for you to just move on if he doesnt want to talk about it. that way at least you can avoid drama in the future.