I am the wife of a meth addict. He is in rehab. I dont know what to tell him when he asked me "Ill make you a deal, I will do it only twice a month" He did say until he could get it under control. I am trying to be as supportive as I can be. He knows how I feel about drugs & its been going on for too long. I know its a disease so I have been patient with him. I understand there will be relapses. But at this point I really feel like he does not want to quit. Any advice would be greatly appreciated.
I know what you are going through and i am sorry to say that there is no way that someone can make a deal and say they will only use twice a month.
We get addicted and we lost control and then it spirals out of control. I can imagine he will start to use behind your back etc.
Does he feel that the meth is more important to him than his family? Does he not even want to try and get help?
I want to say thank you mC for replying to my post. He has continued to use while going to rehab classes 2 days a week. I know he has not fully given into his recovery. He tells me that he does not want to live. That he has nothing to live for not me or his children.....I just feel like he really does not want to give this drug up. I feel very hopeless. I know I need to find something for me so I can learn how to cope. I feel so stuck right now, just dont know what steps I should take next.