So my husband came home at 5am..drunk and needing to be back to work at 9. Well he set his alarms and they went off FOREVER. I couldn't take it, he didn't want to get up he didn't want me to reset them. So I decided to sleep some of the morning on the couch and now he is mad because I did that. I shouldn't have taken it so personally and I should have just kept getting up myself and hitting snooze. Where is this fair?
if you have other problems with your husband things like an alarm can make you annoyed and angry and same on his end. I guess its one of those things that he doesn’t think it is a big deal, but it matters to you and is also stemming from some other problems you may have. try to have a calm conversation about how you feel and what is really happening.
I have been married for over 15 years and my husband drinks everyday. He starts as soon as he gets off of work and stops when he goes to bed. He yells a lot when he has been drinking. I have a son who is 15 and I want the best for him. If I say anthing about his drinking he blows up and get very angry at me and my son. What can I do to deal with this issue. I don't want to divorce him I just wish he could quit drinking.
laurann - that is a tough situation. do you have friends and family that can support you in talking to him? another option would be to talk to a therapist/counselor/doctor/aa person yourself and see what they say are the next steps to help you in getting your husband help.