Why do I care what others think of me or what will they say after they hear about my divorce. People i dont even know. I know my m in law will talk crap abt me. I dont deserve that. I am a good person i know i am and when it comes to me and my stbx only the two us know the truth no one else. I should not care abt her friends or my stbx friends but i do. Im such an idiot. I guess im a people pleaser i dont have enemies. No one really said anything bad about me. Anyway:(
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hey it is what it is.....so let them think what they want......like u said......yourself and the ex know....plus it really is no ones business.....if bad things happen people talk....but when good things happen.....they don't mention that lol.......so be happy and let it roll off your back.......have a fun and fabulous friday
@hellifiknow you are right I agree with you. I just can’t help the way i feel because i was so good to them out of love never pretend and they stab me in the back. I’ll get over it.
Like you said lonely_me, only you and ur stbx knows what's going on with you. I was also concerned of how my m inlaw will spread things bcoz my sis in law just got divorced and she keeps saying how bad her ex is..her ex has Lyme disease..I knew him for a long tome too. He is good with my nieces. But all she kept saying was how bad he was. She filed too bcoz she couldn't handle his Lyme disease and I remember supporting her...and now her brother my stbx is also filing bcoz he never loved me.
@mamaoftwo well, guess shame on them if they do talk back. When i tell my mom abt my stbx i cant even say anything bad abt him bc i dont want her to hate him or dislike him. She wouldnt, she always liked him but still.
Same with my mom. All she day is she is praying for all of us
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