Why?

I was told I had herpes about two years ago now. When I first found out I was so hurt and crushed because I used protection. I was with someone whom I thought was trust worthy. So I've been dealing with it and over time I have accepted it. During the two years I found I out I had a brian anysurm and received 4 surgeries in 3 days. I been through a lot but I'm still here. Today, I find out that a person I only dated 1 time (didn't even kiss) had someone tell him from the doctor office that I go to that I havw herpes. I didn't tell this person because I felt no need too because he didn't even stick around that long. The guy that I currently just met knows this person and probably been told before I even get to know him. How can people just do someone like that! Who gave them the right to tell my personal business!!! I'm just so hurt and I can't stop crying.....WHY?!

Herpes is one of the most misunderstood std's out there. The simple truth is that 90% of the adult population has it but doesn't realize it. If you ever get a fever blister you have herpes. The only difference between mouth herpes and the other kind is simply where it's located. It's the same virus, resting at the back of your brain untill something triggers it and you get an outbreak. There is no difference in oral herpes and the other kind, just the location, and there is no cure for herpes, though drugs such as Valtrax can stop an ourbreak once you get one. Odds are these wrestlers already had the virus and why the big to do here is beyond me. You may know more about herpes on the dating and support site POZmingle. Good luck to you all!