I'm feeling like a worthless piece of crap. Only cool people seem to have girlfriends. Only normal and cool people drive cars. Only cool and normal people are liked by nearly everybody in the world. But, no, not me. Because I can't drive, girls automatically say, No, this guy's a loser. I'm going to break up with him because he is different. Who the hell says that and what kind of women are out there who think that way?
Hello there! I am so sorry for how you are feeling? Would you mind my asking why you are feeling this way about yourself? Is it because you don't have a girlfriend? Well, to be honest, I am single and have been for quite some time, and as are a lot of my friends both male and female. I don't think that being in a relationship should define who you are, I don't think that you should think less of yourself.
Yes, it is. I keep thinking about the fact that I have been in and out of three relationships. I am sick and tired of it. I'm not in the mood for being single for the rest of my life. I want someone to care about, love, and support, and vice versa. I want someone to share my life with, and if I don't have that, I feel worthless.
I think that's such a beautiful thing; to want to care for someone and share a life with them. I want that and all of my close friends want that in their lives. I think that it's so important to be happy and fulfilled on your own and all else will fall into place. Sometimes when we put too much pressure on trying to make something happen, then it tends not to happen. I think that you should still keep looking, but maybe not put so much pressure on yourself to be in a relationship.
As well, as relationship should not define who you are, you should define who you are. I think that you should try to take time to find inner happiness and know that you deserve the utmost in life. And, when you're in a good positive place, you'll attract like energy.
Trust me, I know how being single can wear on you and can be quite lonely, but I'm making the best of it. Life is so precious, we should embrace and enjoy each moment.
Wanted to add, not all women are like that & you will find someone (probably at college) that is so worthy of your qualities & has your same values & interests too. Open your heart & mind a bit honey, I'll bet there's girl right now thinking "Why doesnt he say HI to me"? or start a conversation. If we dont put ourselves out there then we'll never know.
C'mon now your better & smarter then that.
Big (((HUG)))
April
I don't see myself getting a girlfriend anytime soon. I've resorted to online dating, but feel like I'm wasting my time doing that. Yet, it seems like the only route that seems logical.
Hello there! I've tried online dating a few times and personally didn't have any success, though I met a few nice people in the process. I always kept it to daytime dates for coffee, so it was safe, quick and easy. I do know people who have had great success with online dating; one of my close girlfriends is getting married to a man she met online. Look at this as one avenue for meeting new people.
I'm not too certain about meeting anyone to be in a relationship. After all, I'm a person who is unable to drive, and how many women would just drop whatever they are doing and come to see me and even bother to get to know me? Please tell me, because I have no idea.
well theres a million other girls in the world and there not all the same. once you get out there you start over fresh, n just be you. ik its hard, ik sometimes you feel like theres no point, but i believe everyone has someone out there
this may be hard to swallow,but not everyone is meant to have the (perfect) life. I always wanted to fit in and be happy like others seem to be in there relationships, now i know better,dont get me wrong, having that special someone is great,but if you dont,there must be something else thats in store for you at this time, and things usually happen in the oddest times and places,life is full of wonderful happens,dont think that that one girl is the answer to all your issues,thats not fare to her or to you.
and you find em when your not lookn for em too. something ive noticed
Open your mind a bit.....be optimistic.....I use to go pick guys up in my car (if I liked them) & hang out at the beach, friends house or sit & watch a movie at their house & yes their parents there, heck my boys 19 & 26 use to bring their gf to my house & hang out watch movies & eat chips & when they did not have a car they road a bike & just took a walk around the neighborhood.