Broken heart

My girlfriend has been AMAZING through everything I have put her through battling my eating disorder. She has stood by me through relapses, hospitalizations, etc. She has put up with my lying and manipulation when it comes to food. I have never lied to her about anything, other than food. We have been together 9 years, and I have never had anyone in my life that has loved me for "ME". She is everything to me.

The other day she told me "You are determined to kill yourself, and you are forcing me to watch."

The only think I could think of to say was "I'm sorry". How do you make up for putting someone through the hell of an eating disorder and the wreckage and damage that it causes to everyone who loves you. How do you apologize for being so damaged? It hurts me so badly knowing how much I hurt her, how much my ED hurts her. Knowing that she loves me SO MUCH that it breaks her heart to see me self-destructing. I feel so guilty.

I think most, if not all ed sufferers can relate to how you're feeling, sarah. For me the answer is to get better ans stay better.

That is my ultimate goal, but in the meantime....I am terrified of losing her. She is the best thing that has ever happened to me. I just feel so ashamed and so guilty about what I have put her through.

Just having a bad day I guess.

I hear ya :(
Just try taking as many baby steps as u can towards the ultimate goal so its not so overwhelming