Found out in April that my Fiance may be living a double life which he denied when confronted. About a week ago pics. were posted on FB by one of his friends of him which confrimed that he was lying and is married with a child about 3 yrs old. He stopped calling me since I e-mailed about the photos. I am still in shock and is hurting very badly. I know that I have to let go and run as fast and far away from him as possible but is finding this so hard to do. I loved him for over 10 yrs and was always faithful and truthful. I hurt even more by all the lies and deception and is really down and broken. I cry for most part of the day and don't really know where to start picking up the pieces. I was really looking foward to spending the rest of my life with him.
oh, my goodness! You have no idea how familiar this sounds. Even though my fiancee and I have not been together as long, he lied to me when we met and said that his wife had died a year before. In a way he was telling the truth because his first wife had dies the year before. But, he didn't bother to tell me that he was still married to another woman and had only been separated for a week. When we started to get serious is when he told me. He is divorced now . But, let me tell you, I did a lot of crying when I found out and had alot of thinking to do. Whether I wanted to stay with him or not. I am still wondering if I did the right thing. After all, he did lie to me. It must not have been that hard for him either. And I wonder what else he has lied about. I hope that you can make the best choice possible for yourself. I know how hard it can be. If you would like to write to me feel free.