It is hard, I know other people have messed up families, but when you talk to people who have at least involved families it is hard, I wish I could have given that to my kids, I took it for granted when I was younger getting gifts in the mail from family. Yes I buy my kids gifts, but extended family, not so much. And yes, who needs all the presents, but it is the thought and knowledge of love behind the gifts.
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