Trying to understand a friend or is she. A year ago I was friends with a woman from the local centre but just before christmas a year ago we went home not to hear from her for a long time she was due to go traveling .I felt I might have done something to her she was avoiding me, I bumped into her on the street when she retuned she said she would return to the group but only once or twice. I know she had family issues and her mam died which she never told me But a few days ago she retuned to the centre liked nothing happened and even gave me a gift from her latest travel. I am not to sure is she a real friend or not
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That sounds very confusing and hard to understand?Maybe she is going through something with her Mom passing and who knows what?It is so hard to say what someone elses inner life is like but it sounds like she acts friendly towards you .Perhaps she is just not interested or having the energy to develop a closer friendship,maybe her actions don’t have anything to do with anything you have said or done.You could just take it day by day and continue to be friendly,give her space for whatever is going on in her life and if she wants to she will connect with you more but if she doesn’t I would not feel bad or as if you have done something wrong,sometimes people just need space.
It very hard to understand . I think you could be right . I find it confusing .
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