GUYS. So I've mentioned before that I've got this crush on my straight roommate, and it's just this sort of this that I keep wrapped up and buried, it's never going to happen so I just enjoy the time I get with her bUt (she does this with the other roommate so it's just a general friendship thing) we were watching a movie and she laid her frickin head on my shoulder and I was ready to die from happiness. Like, straight up, went from watching the movie to just thinking "don't you dare move and screw this up". I was just super happy and wanted to share that with someone
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i feel you. i fall for straight people as well.
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@KatieKwan Dude, it’s the worst…like, there’s always this balance of “this how just friends interact” and “oh crap did I just accidentally ale it too far abort retreat”
Hi All!!!! My new boyfriend and I are falling in love with eachother!!! It's awesome!!! He is REALLY cute too!!! I think I would someday marry him too, if he felt the same way about me!! Which I know he does! He calls me his "Solace"! I know marriage is a big commitment, but I am just pondering where him and I would go in our relationship. We have a lot of steamy conversations!! I am in love with him! I have never felt this way about the same gender before!!!
@ryanb1984 … so you’re not bi but gay? I thought this was a group for bi people…
I am bi, and like both genders, but am falling for the same gender. So, I really don't know...
Hey JAB13, I felt like I could relate to the people in here because I know what they are going through.
That's why I posted in here....
thank you for the reply…
so how long have you been bi? I didn’t start having these urges until about 10 yrs after my divorce. these urges come and go but when they come, they are strong… porn helps but I still get these urges that are overwhelming…
This is an old thread, you can tell by the numbers by the month, that isn’t the day, but the year. But here is my take on things, you may have always had these feelings, but you suppressed them, or you never even thought about it except maybe, that guy is good looking, but thinking you were just being objective or comparing your body to his, but it could have been subconsciously you were checking him out. We are all different places on a Kinsey scale and if you were married and you loved your ex, your brain might have been okay, cool, we are with her. But now you can date whomever you want. Why not go to a Gay club, see what you think. Now that everyone is always cool about Bi folk in the Gay community, but hopefully you can find a Bi friendly space to just test the waters. -SG