This is a cute, simple, and straight forward article on how to stop being single. It's true, sometimes we get caught up in singlehood, when there is a way out and into finding a happy relationship. I like that the author shows us how fortunate we are to have opportunities to meet that special someone right at our fingertips;
"Being single is no bad thing; indeed I often mourn the loss of my carefree singleton days. However to feel that you are hopelessly or terminally destined to be alone is another matter but, fear not, here is your indispensable guide to how to stop being single:
1) Make a conscious decision to look for a fulfilling relationship. So many of us walk through life almost with eyes closed, missing opportunities to date. I believe that you have to go and get love, for it does not always land appropriately in one's lap.
2) You must think yourself worthy of love to thrive in a healthy relationship. If you have no love or respect for yourself, it renders it much more difficult for others to either. If you feel perhaps that you have physically let yourself go then indulge in a make- over. Enlist the help of a friend if necessary and splurge on some retail therapy. Buy clothing that is not the norm for you; experiment with a new look for you will be amazed at how this can make you feel like a new person.
If you're a lady (or even a man)! wander over to the cosmetics section in your local department store and ask an immaculately turned-out member of staff to help you create a new look. They will only be too pleased to help and can guide you towards the products and colors that would best suit you. Usually, they'll throw in a few free samples too. This is a terrific way in helping you to feel confident to tackle that dating scene, plus it'll put a smile on your face next time you happen to meet a mirror.
Maybe the work needs to be done internally. I am a huge advocate of self- help books so look no further than your local bookstore and find that book to help you begin to create or regain that all important self-esteem.
Repeat positive affirmations to yourself before drifting off to sleep at night or sitting in the car at a red traffic light. I am thoroughly deserved of a loving relationship,' for example. Say it enough and you will start to believe it.
3) Now you're feeling the part, let's make it happen. Start by asking your friends if they know anyone who would be suitable for you. Many people meet partners through this powerful network and you can rest assured that they aren't anonymity.
4) Go to a bar with friends on a Friday night and make an effort to chat to members of the opposite sex. You may not be interested in them particularly but its good practice all the same.
5) Speed date- its fun and means you can meet lots of potential partners in a matter of minutes.
6) Internet dating is a very successful way to meet someone special. At least this way you will be tailored to one another and there is the added bonus that it is a largely safe forum to connect with strangers.
I am sure that the implementation of all these factors will at least stop you from being single for a while if not permanently. We are very lucky to have these services at our fingertips and, coupled with a determined attitude, can help any singleton to be well on their way to a rewarding relationship."
Source: Helium, by Yvette Durham