I'm a 60 yr old man that has been curious for a few yrs now,

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I'm a 60 yr old man that has been curious for a few yrs now, and I've noticed that a lot of older men get the urge later in life too.. I wonder why and are there any guys out there on this site?

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I'm sorry, I'm not a guy, and I can't help you in that area, but I would like to ask you a question. When you were 18 or 20 did you ever question your sexuality? Did you ever find yourself attracted to a guy during that time? Do you think if you'd been born in this more accepting time that you might have realized you were bisexual at a younger age?
Please don't answer if you prefer not to, I'll definitely understand. Please don't be offended by my questions, I mean them sincerely. I just know very little about bisexuality and I'm really trying to learn.

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@GirlKitty … believe me, if us older guys could find a woman that wants just a sexual relationship we would rather do that… but that never happens…

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@GirlKitty.... well thank you for your comment.. no, when I was that age, I was in love with my first wife and she was the greatest woman ever.. the sex was the best.. she was my lover, sex partner, and private porn star.. she never said no and she kept me completely satisfied all the time.. but even back then, I never judged anyone for there sexual preference.. it's just that as people get older, women aren't into sex like they were when they were in their 20's and 30's.. 3 or 4 kids will do that to a person.. but us men still what sex, love our wives and we want to stay married.. but we won't have sex with another woman because you know it will end badly.. to much emotion involved..

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sorry for such a late reply but I haven’t been on here in a while…
so to answer your question, no, when I was younger I was always into women/girls… it wasn’t until about 10 yrs after my divorce that I started having these urges to experience a purely sexual relationship without all the emotions that come with women…

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I’m a 64 year old Bisexual guy. My experience was different; I grew up in boy’s boarding schools. My first sexual experiences were homosexual; I didn’t experiment with hetero sex until I was out of high school. It wasn’t merely situational; I thoroughly enjoyed my same-sex encounters through the years. I’ve never not been Bi. You’re welcome to PM me if you’d like.

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You are such a lovely and compassionate human. Hugs.

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