Hi - My partner, who I love so much, yesterday said he wants to end the relationship, in part because he has a problem with me seeing male clients (I do Thai Bodywork). He was cheated on previously by someone he was dating who was doing massage. I've talked myself blue in the face trying to convince him I'm a different person, but he still has a problem. I'd love to get people's perspective on this.
Thanks,
Hopeful
I think he is being a bit harsh.He needs to trust you and if he does not there is not much of a relationship
I really dont think you are doing anything wrong this is your job.Talk soon.
men are strange creatures if u had the job when u got together he has no right to complain about how u earn a living if its something nu it will take time for it to sink into his little head.
but dont be fooled this could b a smoke screen to disguise a bigger problem why he wants out.
commumicate and relate is the key here let us no how it goes
sending u loving thoughts and positive vibes
Hi kfidei, How are you doing today? He may have insecurity and trust issues from having been cheated on before. If so, then he needs to work through this. Then it could also be as domestic suggested, "a smoke screen to disguise a bigger problem why he wants out." You both need to talk with each other. Keep us posted in ow you are doing. We are here for you. ((((hugs))))