So I’m in a relationship we been talking almost 5yrs. He was out of work for while. Now he’s back working. So, when it comes to his birthday, I do it big for him like a big party, gift, etc. When my birthday comes in October, I don’t get that. My mom hates when I do all of those things for him and don’t get the same energy back. I don’t feel no type of way about it because he wasn’t work at the time. I’m passion about celebrating anyone I even do it big for my daughter. Is that wrong ?
Just checking in to see if you’re still around and active on the site. We hope you’re doing well and finding the new site enjoyable. If you need any support or have feedback about your experience, please don’t hesitate to reach out. We’re here to help and ensure you have a positive experience on our platform. Looking forward to hearing from you.
-SG
My bf is like that too. Every year I spend so much money doing or buying whatever he wants. He’s never done anything on my birthday… he works, but he’ll never have money. My birthday is in August so its not like he doesn’t ever have time to save… my 30th birthday was last year and i went all out for my sister’s 30th and his 30th. All I got was a dinner at an Italian restaurant. No gift. No party. Nothing. He even went to work and I was at home alone. I cried almost the whole beginning of that day. My birthday is next weekend and he told me he has no money to do anything and he feels bad. I bought myself Morgan Wallen concert tickets as a gift for myself… sucks I’m going alone. I even bought myself an outfit today and which, is the first thing I’ve done for myself all year and when I got home he had an attitude. Does your bf at least get you stuff for xmas, valentines, anniversary or mother’s day? Yeah, mine doesn’t on those days either. I usually just stay home and watch romantic movies wishing it was me lol. I would say maybe it will change, but I’ve stuck around for 13 years and it hasn’t changed once. Only you know whats best for you 