I HAVE BEEN DATING A GUY WHO IS EVERYTHING I COULD WANT EXCEPT HE HAS NO TIME FOR ME. HE HAS HIS KIDS HALF THE TIME AND WHEN HE DON'T HE IS ALWAYS AT THIER GAMES OR CLEANING OR DOING LAUNDRY. I FEEL LIKE I AM LAST ON PRIORITIES. HE COMES TO MY HOUSE AND FALLS ASLEEP WITHIN 20 MIN. AND I AM GETTING SICK AND TIRED OF IT.
It sounds like he is a very good father and kidz do take up a lot of time and energy. Do u ever all go out and spend time together him and the kidz??? do u even want to??? If u want more one on one time this may not be the type of relationship u are looking for or ready for even if he is so wonderful.
This guy sounds like a great dad.How long have you been together?Have you met his kids?Do you have kids?Does he have a job if so has he got a lot of pressure with that.This relationship may not be the right one for you.Sounds like you feel you need to come first and need more love and attention for you and there is nothing wrong with feeling that we are all human.Have you talked to him about your feelings.Do you have a job and busy life?Go with your gut feeling on your relationship and if you dont think it is heading in the right direction think about turning a new leaf and that can be a positive refreshing start finding someone that suits you and your needs.Be Happy and drop me a line.
I understand your frustration, been doing that for 19yrs. now & decided years ago to quietly/ slowly move on, obviously my expectations are different from what other people think huh, so I decided to respect/consider myself & my life, take care of YOU......
April
I have to agree with the majority, a good father needs to devote all of his free time with his little kids if he is not married to there mother. It will be difficult for him to have a relationship outside of those kids. Sorry, it can't be easy for you!
Hi April wine hope you are going ok?
Ok... if he's everything you want except this? its sounds like something that might merit careful thought and consideration. Communication and exploring possible agreements that can meet your needs as well as his. My take is this...good people that you feel you have a great rapport with....are worth consideration and effort. Imagine a life together... is this someone who can offer something unique and special in your life?