Trying My Best

Life is unpredictable, and it often throws curveballs that leave us feeling unbalanced, confused and not our best. In those moments, understand that it's entirely normal to not always be okay, even though we are almost always going to say, “we're fine.” As humans we will all experience periods of struggle, doubt, and vulnerability. In this blog, we'll dive into the significance of accepting these imperfections in ourselves and why it's perfectly acceptable to have these moments when life feels out of our control and sometimes, awful.

The Myth of Perfection
In today's world, there's a lot of pressure to appear perfect in every aspect of life. Social media presents a curated version of reality, where people showcase their highlight reel while concealing their struggles. This can create unrealistic expectations and lead us to believe that we must always be happy, successful, and composed. Bake from scratch for your children and spouse wearing a flowy white nightgown, with ethereal music playing in the background (yes we gave up a minute of our life watching this). This is a staged fairytale, not reality at all.
Nobody's life is devoid of difficulties, setbacks, or moments of vulnerability. It's essential to recognize that experiencing negative emotions, making mistakes, and facing challenges are all part of the human experience. Instead of striving for unattainable perfection, embrace your imperfections and accept that it's okay to have bad days (and not look amazing while doing it).

The Importance of Acknowledging Your Feelings
One of the first steps in accepting that it's normal to not always feel or be okay is acknowledging your feelings. Suppressing or denying your emotions are unhealthy coping mechanisms. When you allow yourself to feel and express your emotions, you're taking a step toward understanding and healing.
Remember that sadness, anxiety, anger, and frustration are all valid emotions. They are signals from your body and mind that something may need attention or adjustment. By acknowledging these feelings, you're giving yourself permission to address the underlying issues and work towards resolution.

Seeking Support
Just as it's okay to not always be okay, it's also okay to seek support when you need it. Whether it's talking to a friend, family member, therapist, or counselor, reaching out for help is a healthy coping mechanism. Sharing your thoughts and feelings with someone you trust can provide comfort, validation, and a fresh perspective on your situation.
Support networks are vital, remember that you don't have to go through difficult times alone, and there are people who genuinely care about your well-being and are willing to help you through tough times.

Self-Care and Self-Compassion
Self-care is an essential aspect of embracing your imperfections and navigating through challenging times. Taking care of your physical and emotional well-being is not a luxury but a necessity. Engage in activities that bring you joy, practice mindfulness, exercise regularly, and maintain a balanced diet. Prioritizing self-care can significantly improve your ability to cope with difficult emotions and situations.

Additionally, practice self-compassion. Treat yourself with the same kindness and understanding that you would offer to a friend facing a tough time. Avoid speaking negatively about yourself, instead offer yourself acceptance and love, even if it is hard at first, keep at it.

Life is a complex and amazing journey, but it's perfectly normal to have moments when you're not okay. Embrace your imperfections, acknowledge your feelings, seek support, practice self care, and show yourself compassion. Remember that it's normal to not always be okay, and by embracing your vulnerability, you can grow, heal, and emerge stronger from life's challenges. Embrace the journey, rest and reset when necessary, get the help and support you need and above all, don’t compare yourself to those online!

Wishing you all the best,
Team SG

Food for thought:
What is one thing you do to feel good about yourself?
What is something you are struggling with at the moment?
Does social media help or hurt your self image?


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